Cris LaBossiere

Cris LaBossiere
Strength training and mountain biking. My two favorites

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Compulsive: When Exercise Becomes Harmful

.."Speaking from personal experience, having an unhealthy relationship with ones self meant I had an unhealthy relationship with fitness".. - Diana (names changed for anonymity)

This is a quote from a runner,  I'll share more from them later.  It took a few years for this runner to realize their adherence to a training program wasn't entirely from a goal to run faster or be more fit.    That's just part of the misdirection they told themselves to make their unhealthy exercise to appear meaningful and justifiable.

For many active people, from the beginner levels up to pro athletes, exercise causes problems while at the same time providing some positive changes in the body, creating a conundrum that many don't even realize they're in.

If you push your self to new limits, exercise dogma tells us we've done a good thing, even if it means pain, suffering, and injury.

The first part of that is true, after a base is built and the body is more capable of tolerating hard exercise, then sure, if you're chasing peak performance, or simply want to feel the gratification of a new personal best, pushing new limits is a good thing, when done properly.

It's common locker room talk to boast of how sore one is from a killer workout, "I'm soooo sooore!  I can barely move!   What a great workout!".   Is this harmless banter? A benign sign that somebody unwittingly went too hard.. but it's no big deal?

Or is this a sign of an unhealthy perspective of exercise?

.."I used fitness as a way to feel I had control of my life.  I thought that if I could be a really good runner that I would be a better person worthy of love and acceptance"..  Diana

I've spoken to many runners like Diana.  Many bodybuilders, hockey players, gymnasts, cyclists, recreational exercisers.  Nobody is immune and it seems to me like this unhealthy attraction to exercise is growing.  Many use exercise to gain acceptance, to cover up low self esteem, or help sooth unresolved emotional turmoil.   Indeed, exercise is a proven prescription for clinical depression and can be very effective at providing healthy stress relief.  What about when exercise is contributing to stress?

We all need exercise, there's no denying that, but when we are motivated by guilt, shame, and compulsive urges, otherwise healthy activity can sink one into a cycle of self destruction.

I've had many a triathlete tell me about how when they say they're tired and sore, that their coaches and peers encourage them to keep going.  Feeling ashamed for not trying hard enough, they keep going.  How much of this unhealthy encouragement is really the projections of others who share this unhealthy relation with exercise?

Misery loves company.

.."Certain activities become part of my personality and I feel like I need to keep it (hard training). The importance I place on what others say.. It affects me a lot".. Juliette

Get two or more compulsively driven exercisers together and what happens?  From what I've seen they become each others enabler.  I've done this myself.

I remember one ride in particular.  This was back in the 1980's (which may as well be the 1800's!   getting a little grey now).  I had just finished a typical long Sunday ride with the club.  As usual I hammered the hills, threw in some hard pulls, and sucked wheel when I felt spent.

After 5 hours or so of road riding I was knackered. Done.  I'm relaxing at home and I get a call, "hey Cris, wan't to go for a short one to spin this crap out of our legs?".

My first thought was no way, I can barely walk.  "Come on, it'll be an easy one, just an hour or so".

The truth?  I felt like I had to go.   I had to "man up".  The second ride was crap and I was toast for over a week.  I didn't need the extra ride and it took it's toll on my body.  I entered overreaching.   How about emotionally?  Was it a good idea to associate a ride that harmed my fitness as a positive thing? Is this a good perspective to nurture?

I used to do that routinely.  Most of us did, and we would talk about how hammered we were and how great it was to be so tired and sore.  Thankfully I stopped doing that (um, for the most part), and now have much healthier training habits. I'm no longer constrained by the traditionalisms of harder is better, and more is better.

A few years ago I had a training session with a young athlete.  This was a multisport athlete enrolled in a few different sports at the same time, each with a full training program and competition schedule.

They looked totally bagged when I met them.  "You look like you need rest, do you want to skip today?"  I may as well have asked them if they were willing to stick a hot poker in their eye.

Needless to say the idea of rest was rejected outright.  However, each exercise they tried, they couldn't execute properly, and they could barely do a few repetitions, far less than they can usually do.

"Ok, you gave it an honest try, but it's clear you're really tired.  You need rest more than you need training right now. The rest will make you perform better.  Take a break for a few days, you deserve it."

The teenage athlete started to cry.  To them, they HAD to train.  Their parents were present and I explained the situation to them.  They were aloof.  The idea of healthy rest was not resinating with them.  That was the last time I saw that athlete.

This is a taboo subject. Don't talk about compulsive training.  If you do, prepare to be rejected.  I wish it weren't that way.  It doesn't have to be.

.."My coach didn't respond to any of my complaints of feeling tired, feeling sick every morning, not having an appetite".. Diane

I'm not sure how much the traditionalisms of the old "go hard or go home" axioms in exercise are complicit in forming these compulsive traits, and how much stems from deep personal issues where exercise is used to suppress hurtful feelings.  In my coaching experience both play a huge roll and I would say about 70% of people I coach have at least some degree of making an exercise decision based on compulsion rather than healthy balanced reasoning.

It's not uncommon to find some disordered eating habits along with compulsive exercise habits.  Distorted body image is also a driver for compulsive exercise.

Struggling with overeating, Juliette says, "I have emotions like guilt and anger at myself, and when I do, I give up (on healthy choices)"..

"Pain is weakness leaving the body".  Or maybe it's actually pain, from doing too much.  As a rule exercise is presented as an idilic dream where you conquer personal weakness by conjuring special hidden powers and rise triumphantly.  The trouble with unrealistic expectations is the consistency at which one fails to meet them.  This often results in feeling discouraged and undervalued, which further results in unrealistic exercise habits to match the unrealistic hype of the ideal uber exerciser.

These exercise axioms are often part of the vocabulary and experience of the compulsive exerciser, but since this style of exercise is so popular, compulsive exercise can be insidious, remaining undetected, hiding behind the facade of "disciplined" training.

.."Many are focussed on pushing while fatigued. Even though this is seen as heroic, it is harming the athlete, promoting compulsivity, and negative mental thought patterns, ultimately causing them to perform subpar".. Dan, triathlete, cyclist

A compulsive drive is when you feel compelled to do something even though it may be harmful.  The harm is usually ignored or justified.

Contrary to popular belief, engaging in hard core exercise as much as possible isn't actually a sign of physical prowess to be in awe of, much of the time it's a red flag for an unhealthy drive to exercise.

Learn about the signs of compulsive exercise and how to tell the difference between healthy exercise choices and compulsive choices.. go to the article below..

Article; Compulsive exercise; are you doing too much?

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Only 5% of Canadian Youth Active Enough: Report



The 2014 Active Healthy Kids Canada Report Card on Physical Activity for Children and Youth is out.. and.. have to catch my breath.. that's a big title..

On page 10 of the 100+ page long form report I read stats that show about 5% of kids 5 to 17 years old get the recommended 60 minutes of daily moderate to vigorous physical activity, providing us Canadians with a D- grade.  Which maybe we can justify because hey, Australia and the US also were awarded a D- for youth physical activity, so maybe we're really leaders and onto something big.

Like our obesity.  From the 70's to present time childhood obesity has doubled from about 15% to 30%. About 60% of adults are overweight or obese.

I found it interesting that around 80% of parents believe that there is adequate infrastructure for physical activity for youth close to where they live, but only 37% of parents report being active with their kids.

75% of kids participate in organized sports. What's going on here? The report say's only 5% are active enough, yet also say's 75% of kids participate in sports.

The report breaks down some numbers:

75% of 5 to19 year olds in Canada participate in organized physical activities.

Of those, 46% do so year round and 53% participate for less than 8 months and up to 11 months of the year.

34% participate at least 4 times per week, 50% 2 to 3 times per week, and the rest drop off dramatically from there.

Of the whole 5 to 19 year old group participation drops from 83% of 5 to 10 year olds, to 61% of 15 to 19 year olds.

One study showed that 24% of kids playing organized soccer got at least 60 minutes of physical activity while only 2% of baseball players met this level of activity during their practice.  Hockey scored a 50% of kids meeting the 60 min physical activity bench mark.

After the drill down we can see how we can arrive at the overall low physical activity grade.

The report didn't mention anything about how some youth practices are actually over exuberant with getting young athletes to train too hard too soon, but that's another subject I guess.

The report goes on to mention how kids are getting too much screen time, don't walk enough for destinations that are within a reasonable walking distance, like perhaps school, after school activities, or whatever.

While there was some mention that we have developed a culture of convenience and that this influences us to drive instead of walk or ride a bike, I saw no mention of what I think is a larger influence overall.

We love overeating, don't like exercise, and hate being told what to do, especially where overeating and exercise are concerned.

The report did produce a line that I quite like, "we built it and they didn't come", referencing how Canada is actually one of the best equipped nations when it comes to infrastructure for active living like fitness centres, parks, arena's and walkways, but we don't seem to use these facilities that much.

It was also noted that 61% of parents agreed that their kids spend too much time watching TV or using the computer.

I could present you more of the stats, some of which are interesting, but I don't think this report addresses the real issue so I won't go into all the comparisons of Canada's provinces or Canada to other countries. If you're into that data, click the link to the report at the bottom of the page.

I wonder how much we're (adults) influencing our youth with our sedentary habits.

Most adults are overweight and out of shape.  You can certainly gather up a few thousand active people and make it look like there's a lot of interest in living healthy, but overall we're still trending towards increasing our waistline and decreasing our physical activity.

The most difficult task I've experienced as a coach in helping people switch to healthy living is getting people to let go of the reward associations with unhealthy living.  It's hard to not perceive that a walk around the park shouldn't be treated as a behavior that needs the reward of an ice-cream cone or two.

We also have this weird irony where most of the population is overweight, yet there is an unfair judgmental stigma against being overweight. Complicating the matter with another level of irony; although we're all aware of the idea that healthy choices really are better for us, we also offer unfair judgment to those who do make healthy choices; they're the "health nuts".

We have the idea that exercise is a punishment of sorts (which is why you're a nut.. self punishment), which is best delivered by either a screaming commando, methodologically plotted by a science geek, or gently conveyed through a mystic.. whatever way you cut it, exercise is hard, and is delivered by some kind of guru type who of course is a health nut.

So you're wrongly condemned for being overweight while living in a culture that adores and defends overeating, while also being wrongly condemned for making healthy choices while we all know we should be making healthier choices.  If you do make a healthy choice you have to begrudgingly  submit yourself to a health nut guru who's going to punish you and make you do things that you're not sure you really want to do.

The report didn't cover this.  Very few do.

It feels uncomfortable to talk about how we mess up by overemphasizing the reward of eating too much.  The reward attachment is strong, the cultural socialization is strong, and eating too much crap tastes pretty good too; don't want to give that up.

Where exercise is concerned we also have an number of conflicting habits and perceptions.  For those on the no exercise side, many can't see the value in it and may despise the idea of being told to exercise.  It feels too much like someone is meddling in personal affairs. Instead of taking healthy choices at face value, the choices are treated as a kind of oppression or social engineering attempt.

"Don't tell me what to do".  We can get pretty defensive when we're being told what to do, or think we're being told.

For others it's the old "no time" excuse.

For many who do exercise they often have unrealistic expectations of super gains over short periods and that hard exhaustive exercise is the only good exercise.  This soon fizzles out and ends with injury or simply giving up.

We're all messed up when it comes to a balanced and informed take on what exercise is why we do or don't do it.

Our youth are less and less active because adults are less and less active.  It's true that there is growth in the number of people taking up physical activity, which is great, but we still have faster growth in those who leaving being physical activity as well as our population growth overall, leaving space for the sedentary to outnumber the active.

It's in our culture to be inactive and eat too much.  We've socially engineered ourselves to live this way. Somehow we have to get a grip and reverse the trend.

I think a multilevel approach is good; we need reasonable easy access to being physically active, we need some of our tax dollars going towards projects that work, and we need non government resources to kick in as well.

We have all that happening now, but like the report said, we built it and they didn't come. The main piece we're missing is taking a step back from believing that overeating and inactivity are actually not worth the appreciation we assign.  We need to challenge the notion of what we think healthy eating and exercise really are.

I only gain fat when I eat too much.  I lose fitness when I don't exercise.  I feel better, am happier, and am more healthy when I eat healthy and keep up my exercise.

Healthy choices are not restrictive, they're liberating.

It's the unhealthy crap we love so much that is restricting.

Straighten this out, and we'll allow ourselves to naturally gravitate towards healthy choices instead of lamenting them.  It's likely our kids will model our behavior.  They already do now.

After all, who is really going to be motivated to give up something that is perceived as rewarding for something that isn't?

Canadian Youth Activity Report